People have been asking why I responded so strongly to the message from M and why I won’t give her a chance to prove that she’s a different/better person.
- She never asked for me to forgive her so I’m guessing she thinks I’m under some idiotic “love spell” and expected me to just be happy to hear from her. She is abusive and I would put money on her planning to be able to come to me and act like I’d learned my lesson and fawn all over her again.
- She has never taken accountability for
- Verbally abusing me (leveraging my past trauma as a guide)
- Psychologically abusive behavior (stonewalling, gaslighting, yo-yoing, triangulation, alienation)
- Kicking me out of our home
- Taking my money for rent (three months) kicking me out after two and not returning the rest
- Lying about me in a racially charged and dangerous manner
- Being a piece of shit person
- Wasting my time with her bullshit
I have no desire to have people in my life that can’t take accountability for their own shit. Life is short.
I know many in the BPD mafia think that her message was her extending an olive branch but you all aren’t sociopathic. She has so many antisocial personality disorder behaviors that I put nothing past her. I didn’t even trust her to not have poisoned the treats that I left at the house so I definitely don’t trust her yo in my life anymore.
For me her message meant that she thought she could come back and abuse me more but even if I’m wrong there is this: I asked her about communicating better with the help of a therapist or going to counseling. Go back and listen to the audio from the time I went to pick up my shit then watch this:
For those who keep asking me about antisocial personality disorder, and the traits associated there with