I’ve probably posted this before because I’ve sent this around quite a bit including to some of you. The thing is that I just now did the tally and I got 4/5 of these, like badly.

I think about all the times I told M that I don’t do certain things and how she kept pushing me to do the exact things I said that I DO NOT do: washing dishes, setting the table, etc. I should have never capitulated and should have reasserted my boundaries.