I am not saying this is right. I’m just saying, it may not be wrong.

Reminds me of an interaction with Stupid wherein I told her that I was a giver. I realized shortly thereafter that it could be taken as a euphemism and quickly apologized and clarified. She understood and teased me later about it. The this that kills me is that I’d always been genuine and open with…

The broader point, I feel, is applicable to both men and women. someone’s said “if you don’t heal from the past, you’ll bleed on the present”

Sorry it took me a while to get this posted. There have been follow up conversations that I’m currently waiting on approval to post because I don’t want to unmask anybody without their permission.

We get constantly mistreated because people make assumptions About us, and our internal states based on what the observe and whatever bullshit their processing filter subjects them to.