This is sounding very much like the experience I had with M. Again, I’m not diagnosing her just talking about what my experience was.

How do you think this plays out when one partner has alexithymia and the other has BPD that is undiagnosed?

Ok. All of you guys seem to be convinced that M has undiagnosed BPD. While I’m inclined to agree that it’s likely, I’m cautious of labeling and stigmatizing based on limited data. I’m not a professional in the fields of neurology, psychology, psychiatry, or human behavioral conditions. Yes, I did stay at a Holiday Inn…