If you can’t take accountability for your own actions then you’re probably not the type of person I want in my life.

This too is very much like the experience I had with M. Every time I stood up for myself she acted like I was being irrational. I’m not saying here that she is a narcissist or has NPD. Again, I’m not diagnosing anyone, just talking about my own experience.

This is sounding very much like the experience I had with M. Again, I’m not diagnosing her just talking about what my experience was.

How do you think this plays out when one partner has alexithymia and the other has BPD that is undiagnosed?